My Night As An Escort

escortsMy first experience in the escort business came about a couple of weeks ago.

I was in a pinch (actually desperate is a better description) and needed to get some money quickly.

I contemplated long and hard before finally committing myself to accepting the message that was on the swinging website that would forever change my life, I knew I had to do it.

I replied to the gentleman who was suggesting that I should let him fuck me for money that this would be a once off and only because I was desperate, I have nothing against escorts but it’s not a line of work I wanted to get into.

He is a bit of a deviant and wanted to fuck me in a public place but surreptitiously, you know the kind of fantasy, in a service station where someone might pop in at any stage.(Although being the night attendant at one of these meant nobody would actually burst in after the place was locked up for the evening).

I finished sending my reply and knew that there was nothing else I could do but wait and see the outcome of the meeting. I knew I had crossed over already and that my life as one of Auckland’s escorts

So a couple of hours later I was waiting for the last customer to leave the service station that this bloke worked at and for him to lock the doors. Our  hookup would be down the back where if someone did peek in they would notice something happening but couldn’t really see much. I felt vulnerable, nervous and to be honest, excited (I was actually very wet).

The guy gave me a drink after he had locked up which obviously had a bit of vodka in it explaining that it might help both our nerves. We hatted a bit and the more we chatted, the more at ease I became (the alcohol probably helped as well).

We agreed that this would be a one-time only event without any further obligation from either side. Depending on how I felt about the experience afterward, I could call him back and we would go from there.

escortsThe man lead me to the back of the shop where he started to kiss me against the fridge doors.

As he kissed me his hands started to roam up and down my side, gently stroking my flanks which I always find incredibly arousing.

As his hands moved over my body the guy made sure he felt as much of me as he could and I’m glad he did because I was really starting to get turned on.

I had read that many escorts loved their job and as this guy worked his magic on me I could see why, it certainly helped that he was quite well toned and rather good looking.

As he kissed me he started to slide my dress up my thighs until he had the skirt bunched up around my waist, I hadn’t worn any panties and so my naked pussy was now on show.

I could feel his rock hard cock bulging beneath his pants, and I gave him a seductive smile as I opened my thighs wide, giving him a better view. He grasped my hips, taking the opportunity to enjoy the sight of my wet pussy.

I’ve been with real escorts before he said but I’m positive none of them got as wet as you are as fast as you have he said.

I blushed and said that it was probably something to do with the fear and excitement all rolled into one.

escortsLet me see your tits he said and promptly slipped the straps over my shoulders.

Nice tits he said as he ogled my very hard nipples and soft breasts.

He let his mouth cover one of my nipples and started to suck…this was the end for me, licking my nipples has always been such a massive turn-on for me and sometimes I can even cum just having my nipples licked, so once his talented tongue started twirling my nipple I started to shudder and felt an orgasm building.

Oh god I thought, not only am I one of those escorts that fucks people in public I’m one who enjoys being fucked for money.

The guy was working really hard on my breasts now and his fingers had made there way across my flat tummy towards my pussy where the guy then explored my swollen folds as he switched to my other breast. I was so wet that we could both hear the slurping sound of his fingers caressing me. The guy then nearly made me come as he began slipping one finger deep inside me.

The guy released my nipple and watched my face as he stroked my hot little pussy. His thumb raked across my clit, and he slipped another finger in beside the first. I moaned and rocked my hips against his hand, my eyes closed in concentration and I didn’t notice the guy unbutton his jeans and push them down with his other hand,

escortsNot that I had noticed of course, as I was too wrapped up with the feeling of him to be aware of anything else. In a swift, firm motion, he grabbed me tightly by the waist, his fingers caressing my supple body. Without any effort he lifted me back towards him and onto his hard cock, its length running between my legs and the tip resting against my clit.

His hard-on was quivering at the threshold of my pussy before I even noticed what position he was in. He kept his gaze on me as he pressed into me, the hardness and heat of his dick slipping in easily. My eyes flashed open as I realised what was happening and I opened my mouth to object , to say that this shouldn’t be happening, but I was so wet he was up to his balls in one swift stroke, I gasped as I felt his huge cock stretch me open then my orgasm hit.

He felt my pussy tense with the orgasm, and as I came he squeezed himself deep inside me, sensing his own approaching orgasm.

He thrust up into me only a hand full of times as my pussy clenched his cock during my orgasm and then I felt his cum squirting into me, filling my pussy with hot, sticky liquid. I reached down with my hands to grab his bum, forcing him deeper into me. The feeling of his skin against my own made me feel so, so horny that I didn’t want the moment to stop.

Oh my god I thought, if this is what happens for all escorts I’d be one right away but I knew that this isn’t the case usually and so I vowed to never do it again, I also realised how stupid I was to have unprotected sex with a stranger and even worse I hadn’t been paid. Thank fully I did get paid and I was able to get my self out of that little financial issue I had been in.

 

 

 

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First Time

first timeGet Ready for the latest story about my adventures with online dating.

I meet a lovely guy who promises me a night of cuddles.

Can we resist each other and just cuddle?

Come back soon and check out what happens.

 

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Silvie’s Class Reunion – Part 2

Silvies Class ReunionJohn gave her a ride to his house. He lived in a gorgeous, modern two-storey, tucked away in the woods. As they drove down the lane dappled in early afternoon sunlight, Silvie admired her surroundings.

“This is lovely, John. Have you lived here long?”

“Just two years. When my first book went into its third printing, I finally had enough money to buy this place. I’ve got the house and about thirty acres. I like the isolation, but the house is close enough to town that I can go in whenever I want.”

He pulled his pickup to a stop in front of his house and led her inside. Silvie looked around, smiling at the tasteful décor. “This is lovely. You have really good taste.”

She turned and caught him eyeing her legs, and she secretly smiled. She was very glad that she had decided to wear a sexy red lace bra and matching thong panties beneath her clothes. The thought suddenly occurred to her that her love of sexy lingerie had been inspired by the novels of one Jack Jonson! They always contained at least one scene where the hero gets to enjoy the sight of the heroine dressed in her underwear. Her panties were getting wetter by the minute…

“Thank you,” John smiled. “I like it. Can I get you a drink?”

“Sure, whatever you’re having.”

Silvie followed him into the kitchen, admiring the view of his delectable ass as he walked. Her fingers fairly itched to squeeze those firm butt cheeks…

“Is water with lime okay?” he asked, interrupting her thoughts.

“Sounds great.”

Silvie watched as he dropped ice cubes into two tall glasses. He dug a lime out of the crisper and sliced off a few pieces. As he squeezed the lime over the ice, Silvie felt her nipples beginning to tingle. What would it feel like to have his fingers on her breast? She cleared her throat a little nervously as he poured sparkling water into the glasses and handed one to her.

“Thanks,” she smiled, watching him over the rim of her glass as she took a sip. “So, do you have an office here that you use for your writing?”

“Yeah, it’s upstairs.”

He led her through the living room, past a huge picture window that looked out onto a backyard deck, pool and hot tub.

“Wow, this is really beautiful,” Silvie said sincerely. “It must be great to have your own pool on these hot summer days.”

“Yeah, I do enjoy it. Plus, it’s great with the backyard being so private. I don’t have to worry about nosey neighbors if I want to sunbathe in the nude.”

Silvie nearly moaned at the mental image of him nude, slathered in oil, but she managed to subdue the urge.

She followed him up a flight of stairs to a landing that looked down below. As they walked down a hallway, they passed a massive bedroom, and Silvie peeked inside. There was a king size bed, and the sheets were rumpled. Her belly tightened at the thought of him naked between those sheets.

His office was at the end of the hall, and it had large windows on two sides that allowed in an abundance of light. John flipped on a computer and motioned for her to sit down in the office chair. He leaned over her shoulder and his arm brushed along hers as he reached for the mouse.

“Let me just open up the folder…here we go.”

He glanced down and nearly drooled at the sight of her full breasts and the dark valley in between. Even when he’d been her teacher, he had always fantasized about her lusciously full breasts. He knew she would have beautiful pert nipples, because he had seen the outline of them through her shirt many times. In fact, he could see their outline right now, and from this angle, he could see the edge of her bra. Was that red lace? His imagination went wild.

“What is the title?” Silvie asked, glancing up at him.

John quickly met her eye. He wasn’t sure if she had noticed the direction of his gaze, but he flushed slightly.

“The title? Oh, I’m not sure yet. It will probably be something along the lines of ‘Class Reunion’. The final say will be up to the publisher.”

“That sounds intriguing,” Silvie said with a grin. “What’s the basic plot?”

John’s flush grew even darker, but he managed to meet her stare. “Well, it’s about a teacher who meets his former student at a class reunion. They hit it off and one thing leads to another…you know.”

Silvie's Class Reunion“Can I read one of the sex scenes?” Silvie inquired, with a laugh.

“Well, I haven’t really finished the first sex scene yet. I’ve kind of run into writer’s block lately.”

“Hmmm, well can I see what you’ve written so far?”

“Only if you promise not to laugh,” he said, grinning down at her.

“You have my word, I won’t laugh.”

Laughter was the furthest thing from Silvie’s mind at that moment. She was more concerned about not soaking through her skirt. She held her breath as John leaned over her once more and clicked open a file. He scrolled down a few pages and clicked the curser to show her where the sex scene started.

“There you go. This is the first time the main characters are about to get laid. Tell me what you think.”

John pulled up another chair and sat slightly behind and to her left as Silvie began to read. At first, it was difficult for her to concentrate with him watching her. She could almost feel his eyes on her like a caress, and her skin began to heat. However, after a few minutes, she became totally engrossed in what she was reading.

He truly was a talented writer, and the characters he had created seemed to come to life. Silvie was unaware of it, but as she read, she became increasingly aroused. Her lips parted slightly, her nipples hardened into tight buds that were clearly visible under her shirt, and she squirmed unconsciously on her seat. John couldn’t help but smile as he watched her reactions. Damn she was sexy!

He watched her hand manipulate the mouse, and his mouth went dry. She seemed to caress it, her finger rolling smoothly over the ball. He squirmed in his own chair as he thought about her dainty little hand rolling smoothly over his balls…

“This is wonderful, John. But what an odd place to stop writing,” she mused thoughtfully, finally turning to face him. “You were right to the best part, when he’s about to take her, and you just stopped. Why?”

John cleared his throat and looked up at her a bit sheepishly from beneath his brows. “Well, I’m having a hard time trying to figure out the positioning.”

Silvie frowned. “What do you mean?”

“I can’t decide what position she wants him to fuck her in. What do you think would be best?”

Silvie’s pulse was suddenly hammering, and she felt an overwhelming tightening in the pit of her belly. She swiveled her chair around to face him, and her legs brushed against his. It seemed thirty degrees hotter in the room.

“I guess that depends on how big his cock is,” she whispered in a sultry voice. Her eyes dropped suggestively to his lap, and she could see the large outline of his very hard erection.

“I’d say it’s bigger than average,” John said softly. “Since her pussy’s so tight, she’s likely going to have a hard time taking him all in.”

“Hmmm,” Silvie said thoughtfully. “Then it’s probably best for her to be on top, so she can control the penetration and give herself time to stretch.”

Silvie stood up and straddled his hips, lowering herself onto his lap. Her skirt was too short and too tight for this position, and it rode up high on her hips, revealing her lacy red thong panties.

“You know, something like this,” she murmured.

Silvie could feel his rock hard cock bulging beneath her, and she gave him a seductive smile as she opened her thighs wide, giving him a better view. John grasped her hips, taking the opportunity to enjoy the sight of her damp crotch. There was a growing patch of moisture showing on her panties, and he could smell her musky scent.

“Do you think he should completely undress her first, or just make love to her with her clothes on?”

As he asked the question, John was sliding her t-shirt up over her breasts. He whisked it over her head, leaving her upper body in just a lacy red bra. Her nipples were clearly visible, and the way they peeked through the gauzy lace made him painfully hard. It took only a flick of his hand to release the clip in her hair, and it tumbled in golden waves down around her shoulders.

Silvie was finding it hard to talk, but she managed in a breathy whisper as his hands cupped her breasts and began squeezing her nipples. “I think after not seeing each other for several years, they would be too impatient to completely undress. I think she would just be desperate to have him inside her. She’s probably been dreaming about him for years.”

“I’m sure he’s had his fair share of fantasies about her too. It probably drove him wild when she was his student, and he couldn’t have her.”

John pulled her nipple into his mouth and began to suckle it hard, through her bra. He grazed his teeth over the tip, and she moaned. Her head fell backward in surrender, and she arched to press her breast more fully into his lovely hot mouth.

“And would she be visibly wet for him, do you think?” John asked, still feasting on her tit.

“Umm, yes definitely. Her panties would be soaked through.” Silvie’s reply came out as a guttural groan.

John’s hand cruised down to her pussy, and he explored her swollen folds as he switched to her other breast. She was so wet that they could both hear the slurping sound of his fingers caressing her. John grasped the crotch of her flimsy panties and pulled it aside, slipping one finger deep inside her.

Good lord, she was tight and wet! John almost shot his load right then, feeling the muscles of her pussy clamp down onto his finger. He released her nipple and watched her face as he stroked her hot little pussy. His thumb raked across her clit, and he slipped another finger in beside the first. Silvie moaned and rocked her hips against his hand, her eyes closed in concentration.

“How can he be sure that this is really what she wants?” John asked her.

Silvie’s eyes fluttered open to lock with his, and she smiled. “She would show him, of course. Like this.”

In one graceful move, she rose from his lap and knelt between his legs. Meeting his eye, she unzipped his jeans and pulled them down to reveal his beautiful, hard cock. Her eyes widened when she saw the size of him. He was at least ten inches long and broader around than her wrist. Her pussy twitched in anticipation of being stretched to accommodate him.

Silvie Sucks CockSilvie licked the underside of his cock, seeing John shiver. Her tongue explored every vein and crevice, tasting the drops of pre-cum that leaked out of the tip. She took him into her mouth and gradually worked him down her throat. He tasted divine, a mixture of salty and sweet, and she moaned with delight. It was heaven hearing his groans and sighs after all the years when she had dreamed about this, and she worshipped his penis as he leaned further back in his chair.

John held on as long as he could, loving the feeling of her velvet mouth on his cock. He couldn’t resist stroking his fingers through her silky hair. She used her tongue to tease him, and her hair brushed against his groin with each downward stroke. She looked so beautiful. She was giving him the most mind-numbing blowjob he had ever had, and he could feel sweat beginning to run down between his shoulder blades as he tried to delay cumming. When he couldn’t wait any longer, he groaned out a warning.

“Silvie, I’m about to cum,” he managed through gritted teeth.

Silvie could feel the tension mounting in his penis, and she sucked all the harder. Suddenly, ropes of hot gooey cum were shooting down her throat, and she had to struggle to swallow fast enough. Even as his tremors began to subside, she could feel hers growing, as a massive orgasm began to roll through her. She slipped her mouth off his cock and laid her cheek beside it in his lap as she groaned with pleasure, waves of pleasure wracking her slender body.

John lifted her and carried her to a nearby couch. He laid her down and shed his underwear and jeans and tossed them on a nearby chair. Silvie sucked in a breath as she caught her first glimpse of his perfect, naked, mouthwatering ass. It definitely surpassed her expectations. His shirt and shoes quickly followed, and when he turned back to her, he was naked.

John knelt on the floor between her thighs. He grinned down at her and caressed the insides of her thighs as he eased them open. Her panties were soaked through, and he could see her juices beginning to run down her legs.

“You know that after she had given him such a thorough blowjob, he would have to express his gratitude by returning the favor.” As he spoke, John slipped her panties off and held them to his nose, inhaling deeply of her scent. “He’s always known his hot little student would smell and taste delicious.”

Silvie could only manage a strangled moan as she allowed him to pull her hips to the edge of the couch. John looped her knees over his shoulders and began to make love to her pussy. He used his lips, tongue and teeth to tantalize her, as he tasted every intimate fold. His fingers came into play, parting her wet lips so he could penetrate her with his hot tongue.

Silvie was on the verge of insanity, moaning and writhing as she threaded her fingers into his hair. Of all the times when she had masturbated while thinking of him, none of her experiences had even come close to this. John seemed to know her body better than she did, and he alternated between tormenting and soothing her tender flesh. He kept her always on the edge, but he wouldn’t let her reach orgasm as he pressed her relentlessly higher.

John was having a hard time controlling himself as he feasted on her gorgeous pussy. He had never dreamed he would have a chance to enjoy Silvie’s beautiful young body. Maybe it was because she had inspired all his fantasies for years, but he couldn’t get enough of her.

“Please…please let me cum,” she moaned, writhing helplessly before him.

John sensed that she couldn’t stand any more, and he suckled sharply on her clit while plunging two fingers deep inside her to find her sensitive pleasure point. Silvie’s orgasm was so strong, she nearly crushed his head between her thighs, but John didn’t mind, as he greedily lapped up her gushing fluid. She tasted even better than he had imagined.

Her thighs finally relaxed, and John sat back on his heels to enjoy the view. Silvie was sprawled in front of him with her lax legs draped over his shoulders, her pussy widely splayed, and her gorgeous heaving breasts encased in red, see-through lace. He grinned, thinking he must be in heaven.

Silvie’s eyes fluttered open again and she returned his grin. She sat up on her elbows and peered down at his cock. It was standing proudly erect, and her mouth watered at the sight.

“We still haven’t solved your writer’s block,” she pointed out with a naughty smile. “We really should explore the different positions that your characters could use to fit his massive cock into her tiny little pussy.”

John hooked his hands under her armpits and slid her off the couch, settling her astride his hips on the floor. His hands slid down to cup her bottom, and he kneaded the ripe globes as he nibbled on her breasts.

“I liked that suggestion you had earlier, where the student is on the teacher’s lap. Should I have them try it?”

silvies_morning_to_rememberInstead of answering with words, Silvie reached down between her thighs and guided his erection to her entrance. Placing her hands on his shoulders, she sank down, slowly impaling herself onto his rigid cock. The feeling was unbelievable! Her pussy had never felt so full, and she moaned her approval before beginning to move on him.

John gripped her waist as she rode him with slow, undulating movements. Silvie didn’t simply rise and fall on his cock. Instead, she used her hips and thighs to move her so that her pussy caressed his entire length. With each downward plunge, she took him so deep that he could feel the head of his penis probing her womb. He reached behind her to unfasten her bra, and it sprang free, releasing her gorgeous breasts.

He filled his hands with the luscious mounds, enjoying the weight of them as he squeezed her nipples. Her pussy contracted around him, and she arched her back, riding him faster. He kissed her, thrusting his tongue deep into her mouth, and she moaned with delight.

They couldn’t get enough of each other, stroking and panting as their bodies strained to get even closer. Silvie had only had sex with two other men, but neither of them had stimulated her to this kind of passion. John had enjoyed more than his fair share of women, but he couldn’t remember ever enjoying sex like this.

Their tension grew until they were both mindless with need. Finally, John squeezed hard on Silvie’s tender nipples as he thrust deep inside her. She screamed, and the walls of her pussy clamped down hard on his cock as another orgasm possessed her. John was just a heartbeat behind her, and he fired his semen deep into her pussy, enjoying the way her body milked every drop out of him.

They collapsed to the floor in a sweaty heap, and John held Silvie against his side as they both struggled to slow their breathing down. Neither of them had felt this satisfied before, and they lay for a long time, just enjoying the sensations as their bodies cooled.

Finally, Silvie rose up on one elbow and grinned down at John. Her eyes were twinkling as they met his.

“So, is that all there is to your story? The teacher and his former student happen to meet, they have fantastic, incredible sex, and that’s the end?”

John gave her a heart-stopping smile as he lifted her to lie on top of him. “No way. That’s the introduction chapter, angel. We still have to figure out the rest of their story.”

Silvie wriggled on top of him, bending to give him a passionate kiss. She released his lips and gave him a sexy smile. “I think in the next chapter, they should have sex in the pool.”

“Anything you say, angel. You’re definitely my muse.”

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International Dating – Why Don’t Russian People Smile?

loversInternational dating involves a lot of barriers. The first of these is of course distance and it tends to dominate the relationship in the early stages. What a lot of new participants in international dating soon experience though can be more of a barrier – and that is the cultural differences between each partner. Today I want to look at that in depth and in particular answer the question – why don’t Russian women smile?

A smile in Western society conveys several meanings. On the surface it shows happiness and joy. On a subconscious level, a smile creates trust and rapport. To loosely quote Mark Twain “wrinkles should merely indicate where smiles have been”. It displays happiness and acceptance of other people.

To put his into context of your partner, the first image you saw of her was most likely from her online profile. She probably included photos taken by her family where she was smiling and enjoying what was going on around her. As your friendship progressed into a relationship, you probably started to use a webcam. Though a bit grainy, you could see her well enough and she often smiled back at you.

If your partner is the only contact you have had with any Eastern European society, then what comes next is going to be a culture shock for you. You are going to get on a plane and go visit her. As soon as you cross into Russian airspace, everyone (and I do mean everyone) is not going to smile at you. The woman processing your visa as you enter customs is going to treat you with disdain. The middle aged waitress who serves you at dinner that night will treat you with a level just above contempt. Well, this is how it is going to appear to you anyway until you settle into your new surroundings.

Russia is a land of contrast. The people are genuinely warm, caring and friendly but only to people they know. They rarely show this emotion in public. If you are an American, British or Australian man, you are going to have difficulty adjusting to this at first. You are use to service with a smile. You are use to offering up a quick smile as an apology if you suddenly block someone’s way on the sidewalk. But not here. At best, you will be greeted with a neutral expression.

So why is this? Why don’t Russian people smile? It is their culture born out of a century of oppression. This is a country that sent 20 million of its own people to the gulags in Siberia during the 1930′s, 40′s and 50′s. This is one of the coldest and harshest inhabited places of earth. The Road Of Bones that connects Magadan and Yakutsk is aptly named as the inmates from the labor camps and gulags who died while building the road are buried under or laid next to the road.

Being suddenly ‘disappeared’ from society and ending up here up here did not mean you were a violent criminal. Everyday Russians were sent here for trivial items such as being late for work, petty theft or anti-government jokes. It was a form on national punishment used to control the masses. And it worked. People became paranoid of anyone they did not know. It created a survival consciousness that avoided eye contact or smiling at anyone.

Fortunately, this is changing. The older generation will not change but younger Russian people are being westernized. An 18 year old girl will readily smile at you if you just thanked her for the service she just provided while serving you lunch or selling a movie ticket. You will also find a contrast from the public life of Russian people and what they are like in the family home. A man who appears hard and unforgiving outside is a warm and caring husband or father once he comes home for the day.

If your relationship is at the point where you are about to get on a plane and experience this first hand, remember to take it in your stride. The parting advice that I can give you is when you do enter a Russian home for the first time, remember to take a gift with you to thank your hosts. They are welcoming you as a friend or even one of their family. Respect that moment and show your thanks.

Are you interested in international dating? Why not check out the women now online at our Russian dating site. We have hundreds of beautiful Russian women who want to meet you.

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The Steps To Dating

datingHeathy long term relationships do not develop properly when two people skip very important steps in relationship building, especially during the dating period. By doing these simple steps in order, you can prevent future realtionship breakdowns.

Of coarse, the chemistry between two people will have a signifigant impact on wether two people are made for each other. But these tips can give your relationship a fighting chance.

How a relationship should develop:

1. Eye to Body
This is when you see that special someone from a distance. Depending on what you see will determine if you move on to the next step.

2. Eye to Eye
When two people make eye to eye contact, our brains evaluate the potential for somebody to become a mate. The more it likes what it sees the chance increases that a person gaze longer at the other persons face.

3. Mouth to Ear
This is the point when two people begin a casual converstation. This is an important stage because you will evaluate the other person and find if you have anything in common with them. This is a good time to evaluate the chemistry between you and the other person.

If you liked what you seen in stage 2, but ignore stage 3, then the relationship as very little chance at success.

4. Hand in Hand
This is the very first step at bodily contact. Holding hands may seem old fashioned to some, but most females want this kind of affection. In this same catagory is Arm around Shoulder. Proceed with caution to see which one is right for you and your potential mate.

5. Mouth to cheek
To avoid the over-welming feeling of moving too fast. I advise that you move as slowely as possible. A simple kiss on the cheek can test how that other person feels about the idea. The best way to move into this area of a relationship is to be open and ask what the other person thinks about it.

6. Mouth to Mouth
This step is a pretty big step. Sometimes the timing is just right, but be careful not to do it too soon. If you missed a step or two, you may need to backtrack. If you don’t do things in order you might freak out your date. Don’t slobber all over your date. Well at least the first time around anyways.

7. Tongue to Tongue
This is not a neccasary step. You may want to ask if your companion is comfortable with this.

8. Hand to Body
This step usually happens when two people are caught up in the act of kissing. Be careful you may turn hot into cold if you make the other person uncomfortable. However it is possible to turn hot into hotter also.

I don’t advise taking the relationship further unless two people have spent a lot of time together and have decided that they want to spend the rest of their lives together. The reason is to really make a relationship solid is to “only do these steps with the right person.” If you do these steps with every casual person then you are likely to have your senses dulled and will not know the difference whent he right one comes along.

9. You know
I don’t need to explan what this is!

Now the most important step of all:

Once you have found that special person and have married, repeat steps 1-9 at least once a day (when possible). This will keep your relationship as fresh as the first day you met. Don’t skip any steps.

If a husband comes home from work, skips all the steps then wants step number nine. The result could be the wife feeling used and unappreciated. That is why it is important to repeat all the steps!

I hope this article helps you build a strong and healthy relationship.

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11 Dating Success Tips For Single Gay Men

gay datingOne of the developmental tasks of all adolescents is to establish productive relationships with their peer group and to understand and manage their sexuality. Dating provides fertile training ground for these teens for learning about themselves and how to establish and maintain healthy intimate relationships as they continue to mature and grow. Due to growing up in a homophobic society, most gay men as teenagers had to keep their sexualities hidden for fear of social backlash and further damage to their already shaky self-images. Some boys chose to distance themselves completely from dating, while others chose to date their female peers to more easily “fit in” and be accepted. For some, there was no other choice for them but to date girls, while for others it was an attempt to extinguish their feelings they had for males. Very few gay men had the luxury of being able to openly date other gay males as teenagers and to live authentically. Fortunately, today’s generation of gay youth are experiencing slightly more liberal attitudes and acceptance from their peer group about being gay, but there’s still a long way to go. As a result, many gay men as adults remain perplexed and confused about how to date other men. Without training, education, and support, many gay men are forced to “wing it” as they mingle and mate with other men, leaving many of them unsatisfied with their dating experiences and wondering if they’ll ever find a loving partner to settle down with.

What follows is a tips list of things for gay men to keep in mind as they go about meeting other men in pursuit of their Mr. Right. Add your own to the list and keep it handy as a quick-reference guide as you embark upon your dating adventures to promote greater success in your romantic life.

Dating Success Tips

1. Live your life to the max! Creating a full life puts you in charge of your own happiness and puts less emphasis and dependency on finding a relationship to make you whole. You must be whole as a person first before a healthy relationship can be cultivated. By developing yourself, those internal feelings of zest and fulfillment will show on the outside as well. Very attractive indeed!

2. Know who you are, what your needs and values are, and what you stand for. This will take you far as you delve through the dating world. Having a clear vision and purpose will help to keep you centered and grounded on your quest.

3. Examine your relationship history and determine what behaviors worked for you and which ones didn’t. Identify the obstacles that prevent you from engaging in the kinds of relationships that you want.

4. Don’t confuse chemistry with compatibility. While that “chemical spark” is important, a person’s enduring qualities are what really help to lay the foundation for potential long-term relationship success.

5. Determine if you are really ready for a relationship and assess your true motives. One of the biggest relationship “sabotagers” is not being able to be fully present, being distracted by other needs or issues, and having other priorities that compete with the relationship. Determine if you are “dateable” and develop goals to accomplish true relationship readiness. Develop your self-esteem and create a vision for how you’d like your life to be.

6. Don’t stay in a dating relationship that’s not working just for the sake of staving off loneliness or fearing hurting the other’s feelings. This only robs both of you of precious time that could be better served improving your quality of life in new directions. Learn to be assertive and direct with your needs and feelings.

7. Don’t bail out of a dating relationship at the first sign of trouble. Relationships take hard work and conflict is actually a necessary precursor to deeper connection and intimacy. Assess what’s missing and what the barriers are and determine if negotiation is possible. There can be no growth without healthy conflict; however, know the difference between that and when the relationship really isn’t a “goodness of fit.”

8. Be proactive in getting what you want and take responsibility for what happens. Conquer your anxieties about taking initiative. Don’t stand on the sidelines hoping someone will make contact with you. Make that move yourself and choose to approach someone if you’re interested. Internalize the mantra: NO MORE MISSED OPPORTUNITIES!

9. Face your fears of rejection directly. A turn-down for a date has nothing to do with you as a person; it has everything to do with the other person’s projections and needs. Know that you are worthy and deserving.

10. Build your support network. Surround yourself with positive people who will affirm you and support you. Family and friends provide a much needed source of connection, love, and fun that can truly enhance your life as a single gay man.

11. Be careful of casual sexual encounters if your goal is to meet a prospective life partner. Typically sexual release is the primary aim of such encounters, which can confuse and disillusion you to the type of men available, believing that gay men only want sex and nothing more significant or with depth. Put yourself in situations where you are more likely to meet men with similar goals and if you choose to “play along the way,” always practice responsible safe sex.

©2004 Brian L. Rzepczynski

Brian Rzepczynski, Certified Personal Life Coach, is The Gay Love Coach: “I work with gay men who are ready to create a roadmap that will lead them to find and build a lasting partnership with Mr. Right.” To sign up for the FREE Gay Love Coach Newsletter filled with dating and relationship tips and skills for gay singles and couples, as well as to check out current coaching groups, programs, teleclasses, and the self-help book he co-authored, “A Guide to Getting It: Purpose & Passion,” please visit http://www.TheGayLoveCoach.com Thank you!

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Silvie’s Class Reunion

Silvie's Class ReunionSilvie studied the covers of the two modern romances she held, totally oblivious to what else was going on around her in the bookstore. She frowned with indecision, trying to decide which of the books she was going to buy. One of them had the steamiest picture she had seen on a romance novel, with the heroine’s breast thrust up impudently, and the hero’s hand poised at her neckline, ready to expose her succulent flesh. Silvie’s pussy was getting wet just looking at the picture.

However, the other book had a more promising storyline. A young virgin, living on a remote island meets an American surfer while he is on holiday…how could Silvie resist a teaser like that? She felt the telltale tightening in the pit of her belly at the thought of being seduced by a sexy, powerful man, and she released a shaky breath. Decisions, decisions…

“Find anything you like there Silvie?”

Silvie jumped from the unexpected interruption, but even more from the husky tenor of the voice that had whispered the question in her ear. She dropped one of the books as she whirled to face Mr. Jones, her former high school English teacher. Her face flamed.

“Mr. Jones! What a surprise to see you here.” She pasted a bright smile on her face.

The twinkle in his eyes and the smile that flirted with the corners of his mouth told her that he knew she was embarrassed. He knelt to retrieve the book she had dropped, and he couldn’t resist surreptitiously scanning her legs. She was wearing a short skirt that came to mid thigh, and her exposed ankles, calves, knees and lower thighs were curvy perfection. In his mind’s eye, he pictured those legs wrapped around his waist while he plundered her tight pussy…he was getting hard just thinking about it. He forced his thoughts back to the present as he stood up to hand her the book.

Silvie’s blush burned even brighter as Mr. Jones studied the cover of the book she had dropped. It was the book with the erotic picture, and Silvie wanted to melt into the floor. She had had a crush on Mr. Jones all through high school, and even three years later, she still fantasized about him. More often than not, it was him she thought about while she stroked herself to climax in her lonely apartment.

Silvie hadn’t been the only girl in her high school to have a crush on him. Most of the girls in her school had drooled over Mr. Jones, with his tight fitting jeans that lovingly hugged a perfect butt. Every time he turned his back to write on the blackboard, the girls in his class would crane their necks to get a better look. They had nicknamed him Mr. Ass.

Of course, his perfect ass was part of a totally appealing package. At the age of twenty five, he had been the youngest teacher in their school. His body was lean and muscular, and he had the most startling sky blue eyes. His hair was tawny gold and just a bit too long for a proper teacher. The ends curled over the collar of his shirt, and Silvie had often fantasized about running her fingers through those wavy locks at his nape.

Mr. Jones raised an amused brow as he handed the book back to her. His grin was the epitome of sexy. “Interesting read you’ve chosen Silvie. I see I wasn’t able to inspire a burning love of literature in you.”

His tone was clearly teasing, and Silvie found herself returning his smile. He had no idea that he had inspired lots of burning love in her, just not for literature! She looked up at him with a shrug.

“Well, you know, it’s good to be interested in a variety of genres. Shakespeare and Thoreau are fine and good for an afternoon’s entertainment, but they’re not the greatest choices for bedtime companions.”

Mr. Jones considered her statement, his cock twitching at the thought of her needing a bedtime companion. A woman like her shouldn’t have to go to bed with a book. He had been attracted to her since she had been a sophomore in his class, but he had never acted on his inappropriate urges. He hadn’t forgotten her since though, and he had always wondered what had become of his sexiest student.

Seeing her now, at the age of twenty one, he thought she looked sexier than ever. Her dark blonde hair was gathered into a casual knot and held with a clip, and her brown eyes were definitely the bedroom variety. Her full lips by themselves were enough to inspire naughty fantasies, not to mention those perfect, pert breasts filling out her t-shirt…he had to get a grip on his imagination, or he was going to embarrass himself.

“I was just about to grab some lunch. Would you like to join me Silvie?” He found himself holding his breath for her answer.

Silvie’s smile widened as she looked up at him. “I would love to Mr. Jones.”

He laughed with pleasure. “You know, I’m not your teacher anymore. You can call me John if you like.”

Silvie nodded. “Okay John. Lead the way.” Silvie set both novels on the shelf and turned to walk away.

“I thought you were going to buy one of those books,” John said.

“I changed my mind,” Silvie said with a shrug. She didn’t mention that seeing him had provided her with enough bedtime fantasy material to last months. She wouldn’t need a romance novel for a while!

They walked to a nearby Greek café, chatting about the events of the past three years since they had seen each other. They were both a bit surprised to realize that they were completely at ease in each other’s company. Over a lunch of calamari, salad and wine, Silvie told him about her adventures in university, and John asked lots of questions, obviously interested.

“So I only have one more semester to go before I graduate. Then, I will have to find a great job so I can pay off my student loan!”

John raised his wineglass to salute her, and there was a twinkle in his eye. “Ah, here’s to student loans!” They both drank, and he set his glass down. “Don’t worry too much about it. I know from personal experience that you pay it off sooner than you expect. Especially once you get a job as a computer programmer. They make good money.”

“I hope so,” Silvie laughed. “I’m counting on all my hard work to pay off. What about you? Are you still teaching at Gordon High?”

“No, I stopped teaching about two years ago,” John replied. He was distracted as he watched a piece of calamari disappear into her luscious mouth…he suddenly realized she had said something. “Sorry, what was that?”

“I asked what you are doing now,” Silvie repeated, briefly wondering about the dreamy look on his face.

“Well, I’ve had a few books published, and now I’m a full time author.”

“No way! Really?” Silvie’s enthusiasm was flattering.

John laughed and nodded. “Yeah. I really like it, being able to work on my own schedule, no commute, no school board politics to deal with.”

“That is so cool!” Silvie said with a smile. “What kind of books do you write?”

John looked down at his plate. A wicked grin was threatening, but he tried hard to keep a straight face. He was not entirely successful as he met her eye. “I write romance novels.”

Silvie choked on her salad and grabbed her glass of water. It was several moments before her sputtering subsided and she met his amused stare. “You’re joking right?”

“No really, I’m serious. I write under the pen name of Jack Jonson. Maybe you’ve seen some of my books?”

Silvie could only give a weak nod as she reeled from shock. She had not only seen his books, she had every one of them at home beside her bed. He was, in fact, her favorite author, although Silvie had always thought he was a she. Her mind raced, as she realized that all his books had a theme of a strong, sexy man who couldn’t resist the lure of a younger woman. Of course, the characters always ended up having hot, steamy sex. Not surprisingly, her favorite of his books was about a teacher who seduced one of his students…a young, pretty blonde with brown eyes.

Silvie could feel her pussy soaking her panties, and she shifted on her chair. “I can’t believe I’m sitting here having lunch with my favorite author. I’ve read every one of your books.”

John’s cheeks flushed with surprised pleasure. “I’m flattered.”

“How do you come up with your inspiration?” Silvie asked.

She placed another bite of calamari on her tongue, licking her upper lip to remove a bit of the sauce. She noticed that his eyes watched the golden morsel disappear before he responded.

John gave a casual shrug as he answered. “Oh, from different things that I’ve experienced or fantasized about. I think it’s best to write about things you know.”

“That makes sense,” Silvie replied. “Are you working on another novel now? I would love to read an excerpt.”

John laughed. “As a matter of fact, I am. If you’re seriously interested, I’ll give you my number and you can drop by sometime when you have time.”

Oh, she was interested all right! That was the understatement of the year.

“How about today? I’m free for the rest of the day, if you’ve got time to show me your stuff.”

“Alright,” John murmured.

He could feel his pulse beginning to race at the thought of having Silvie in his house. He definitely wanted to show her his stuff, but he wasn’t thinking about his writing. If she only knew how many times he had dreamed about having sex with her, she would be shocked. It was a challenge to stay focused on the conversation as they finished their meal, but he managed.

Stay Tuned for the next chapter when John shows Silvie more than just his studio.

 

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Dating Tips and Advice For Single Parents

Dating TipsBeing a single parent can be difficult when you are trying to raise children on your own, maintain a career, take care of a household, and run kids back and forth to school and extracurricular activities. Good dating tips for single parents who are unsure if they are ready to be back on the dating scene include taking it slow, be upfront and honest, and take time to establish a rapport and trust.

A single parent has more responsibility in dating than the average single person with no children. Single parents need to adhere to wise dating tips in order to protect their children, as well as to ensure that the single parent is also not settling for less than he or she deserves. Taking on the responsibility of dating is yet another task, but it also can be a fun and rewarding one that can potentially bloom into a long-term commitment and marriage.

Understanding that your child’s needs come first is primary when you slowly merge back into the dating scene. Look around at friends who were single parents at one time and successfully dated and married. Ask them for suggested dating tips and listen to their experiences so you can gain some personal insight to the challenges you may face while dating.

In addition to talking to friends who have been in the same situation, it is also important to listen to your inner conscious and intuition. Many people ignore red flags that go up about the person they are dating simply because the person is attractive or has money, or because the single parent is tired of trying to find someone to date. Paying attention to your red flags and intuition cannot be replaced by any dating tips or advice you receive from anyone. Only you can gauge what feels comfortable and what does not.

It is wise to be upfront in the beginning to the person you are dating about the fact that you do have children. While many people are reluctant to bring this up on a first date, you will gain respect from the person you are dating because you are being honest and allowing him to decide on his own if he wishes to continue dating someone who has children. Following these dating tips will put you on solid ground and you will have nothing to hide if the relationship continues.

If you continue to date the same person, there will come a time when you will debate on whether or not to introduce the person to your children and family. If you believe it is potentially a serious relationship which could develop into something long-term, it is wise to introduce the person to your children, and vice-versa.

Consider a family-friendly date at a theme park, playground, or pizza parlor, or another similar public place for the time you introduce the person you are dating to your children. Keep it informal, public, and safe the first few times he or she meets your family to protect the best interest of everyone involved.

For further dating tips and advice for single parents please visit Dating Fox.

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We-Vibe II

We Vibe

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Introducing the revolutionary We Vibe II!

One of the world’s most critically celebrated vibrators just got even better! This revolutionary product is the first ever dual vibrator that can be worn while making love. The unique and innovative design features two powerful motors that provide external clitoral and internal G-Spot stimulation for women enjoying both solo and partner play. The man will also enjoy the thrilling sensations as the shaft of penis rubs against the We-Vibe during penetration.

The We-Vibe is hands free, strap free and totally wireless. Created from medical grade silicone, it’s soft, comfortable and easy to use.


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